Why You Should Talk About Erotica
You can discuss erotica with your friends at Uni or down the pub, you can even bring it up at work with your good friends. The fact is, more people do it than you think. People all have 'needs' and it's time we stopped being ashamed of them. This is what will happen if they aren't in to it or look down on you. You're having a discussion on sex say.
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"I've been reading quite a lot of erotic stories recently, I'm quite enjoying them: You ever read anything like that?"
"Nope, not really my thing."
"Fair enough."
Change topic.
Or you might get "No I haven't, why are they good?"
See it's really no big deal. Most people are reasonable human beings and won't be massively scared if you bring up something sex related. Most people will even be in to it and may surprise you by being a lot lonelier than you expected.
See the fact is that everyone likes to do it and a lot of people are embarrassed about it. But if you directly straight out ask them, that will take a lot of the embarrassment out of it. If you ask them in a round about or shy or timid way that will make them think that you think that there's something wrong with doing it. Thus, they will clam up or get shy. Even worse they might judge you for it. They can do this because they know that you've already judged yourself so it's not a problem. You've already judged yourself by bringing it up in a timid manner, they know you feel guilty. Reading this sort of material is really nothing to be guilty about. You should enjoy it as a 'guilty pleasure' after a hard day of fun work.
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"I've been reading quite a lot of erotic stories recently, I'm quite enjoying them: You ever read anything like that?"
"Nope, not really my thing."
"Fair enough."
Change topic.
Or you might get "No I haven't, why are they good?"
See it's really no big deal. Most people are reasonable human beings and won't be massively scared if you bring up something sex related. Most people will even be in to it and may surprise you by being a lot lonelier than you expected.
See the fact is that everyone likes to do it and a lot of people are embarrassed about it. But if you directly straight out ask them, that will take a lot of the embarrassment out of it. If you ask them in a round about or shy or timid way that will make them think that you think that there's something wrong with doing it. Thus, they will clam up or get shy. Even worse they might judge you for it. They can do this because they know that you've already judged yourself so it's not a problem. You've already judged yourself by bringing it up in a timid manner, they know you feel guilty. Reading this sort of material is really nothing to be guilty about. You should enjoy it as a 'guilty pleasure' after a hard day of fun work.
Erotica Podcast